{"id":9265,"date":"2021-07-23T14:49:36","date_gmt":"2021-07-23T12:49:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/boasblogs.org\/?post_type=curarecoronadiaries&#038;p=9265"},"modified":"2021-10-07T17:48:40","modified_gmt":"2021-10-07T15:48:40","slug":"crisis-and-absurdity","status":"publish","type":"curarecoronadiaries","link":"https:\/\/boasblogs.org\/de\/curarecoronadiaries\/crisis-and-absurdity\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned about crisis, it\u2019s that it usually comes hand in hand with absurdity.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style>\n\t.dkpdf-download-icon { height: 1.5rem; }\n<\/style>\n\n\n\n\t<div class=\"dkpdf-button-container\" style=\" text-align:right \">\n\n\t\t<a class=\"dkpdf-button\" href=\"\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/curare\/9265?pdf=9265\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t<img src='\/wp-content\/themes\/boasblogs\/dkpdf\/download_red.svg' class=dkpdf-download-icon'\/>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\n\t\t<!-- <a class=\"dkpdf-button\" href=\"\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/curare\/9265?pdf=9265\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"dkpdf-button-icon\"><i class=\"fa fa-file-pdf-o\"><\/i><\/span> Download PDF<\/a> &rarr; -->\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n<p><em>At the time of beginning the diary: 21-year-old female student of cultural anthropology, living in student housing in Freiburg, Germany. Normally sharing accommodations with 3 flatmates, currently alone in the flat. Planning on remaining in isolation apart from grocery shopping until at least April.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>19.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I spent a lot of time running errands outside today, more than I intended. Last night I couldn\u2019t sleep, thinking about all the unknown variables of my current situation. Do I have enough supplies, should I go to my parents\u2019 house or stay put in my own apartment, will there be a curfew in the near future?<\/p>\n<p>Going outside meant I could finally get some of the errands done that were causing me so much anxiety, but also that I got a sort of \u201creality check\u201d, after interacting only with my neighbors in the student dorm for the past few days. And the internet makes everything seem like end times, hearing about all the events being canceled, all the deaths and the steadily rising number of infections.<\/p>\n<p>I was shocked by how normal things seemed. A lovely sunny day and people are sitting on the grass picnicking, playing with their children, eating in groups at outdoor cafes! It made me squirm with anxiety. And I felt guilty for being outside myself.<\/p>\n<p>But I told myself I had to go out, to settle important matters of my everyday life. I submitted some paperwork for the Bachelor\u2019s thesis, which I\u2019ll be writing during the next few months, if I can.<\/p>\n<p>Mostly I was trying to recharge my student ID which I use to do laundry in my dorm building. All the university buildings where you can charge your card are closed and I was scared I wouldn\u2019t be able to wash my clothes. A small detail in the grand scheme of things, of course I can wash clothes manually like people did for centuries, but it would mean a departure from comfort and normality. In my quest I came across a helpful janitor and fellow student who called a friend to ask for advice and gave me his number, offering to let me use his card if I needed to. I was able to recharge it and feel way more secure now. But I think it really did me good to experience some helpful, friendly interactions. That normalcy comforted me, that people haven\u2019t reverted to some kind of looking-after-#-1 mentality in times of crisis. Yet. And I keep asking myself: how long will I be open and helpful and compassionate? I\u2019m happy to share food or to go shopping for a friend now, when things are mostly normal. I guess I\u2019m not just curious to see how much solidarity the people around me show in times of crisis, I\u2019m also waiting to see if stress will reveal that I\u2019m actually way more selfish than I\u2019d like to think.<\/p>\n<p>I have anxiety, not just now, but in general. I worry a lot. I have recurring intrusive thoughts, reminding me of just how scared I am all the time. But this was true before corona.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: auto 0px; padding: 0px 50px; font-size: 24px; float: left; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 40px; float: left; font-weight: normal;\">&#8222;<\/strong>I seem to be working harder to protect my mental health than my physical health which is, I\u2019ll admit, a pattern for me.<strong style=\"font-size: 40px; font-weight: normal;\">\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of course going outside made me feel exposed. I brought disinfectant wipes (used up the last of my supply), and I\u2019ve been taking zinc and vitamin C tablets for my immune system, given to me by my mother. What really struck me today is that I know that my protective actions are insufficient. I took the tram, I touched shelves in the grocery store and door handles and then forgot not to touch my face afterwards. I disinfected my cell phone and keys, but not everything I had on me outside. But I think it\u2019s not really about thoroughly destroying any possibility of infection, it\u2019s just about doing enough to calm myself. If I disinfect my phone, I can tell myself I\u2019m protecting myself and deliberately ignore all the ways in which I haven\u2019t been perfectly careful. I seem to be working harder to protect my mental health than my physical health which is, I\u2019ll admit, a pattern for me.<\/p>\n<p>Finally I had to say goodbye to a loved one today without physical contact. My closest friend and neighbor is going to stay with her parents in the north of Germany, she knows she\u2019ll receive help and supplies from them. And they want to see her. She wants to come back in a few weeks, but we both know if there\u2019s a curfew she could get stuck there. I really wanted to hug her.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re young and healthy and have the luxury of worrying more about how this pandemic will affect our future plans, rather than about our immediate survival or financial stability. I\u2019m grateful. And I\u2019m scared.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>20.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Starting tomorrow the city of Freiburg is prohibiting people from going out in public unless it\u2019s for work, grocery shopping or urgent business. The news is very deliberately pointing out that it is not an \u201cAusgangssperre\u201d (curfew), probably so people won\u2019t panic. From my bedroom window I can see that the childcare center across the street is still open (!) so I guess a de facto curfew really would be for the best. I feel relatively secure in the knowledge that I\u2019m stocked up on supplies. The more I think about it the more I\u2019m glad, with the rate of infection in Germany rising as quickly as it is, it\u2019s really only a matter of time. I only hope the rest of the country follows suit and quickly.<\/p>\n<p>Scrolling through my social media feed I notice that at least three quarters of the posts are corona related, even though I haven\u2019t made a habit of following news sites. A lot of corona memes.<\/p>\n<p>I also received an email asking me to decline a refund for some concert tickets I bought back in September. My donation could help keep the venue and all the people involved in the entertainment business afloat. Haven\u2019t decided what to do yet.<\/p>\n<p>A friend just sent me a picture of her sister, who\u2019s training in the Bundeswehr, suited up in full uniform with a helmet and gas mask, captioned: My sister is going out to buy toilet paper. Gallows humor has been my coping strategy so far as well.<\/p>\n<p>My relatives in a Latin American country are more or less constantly exchanging health advice in our whatsapp group. Talking about where to buy food, whether or not to wear gloves and masks. They\u2019re very concerned about whether the economy will survive an extended quarantine. Thinking of all the people in Latin American countries who make their living on a day to day basis, often due to tourism, street vendors for example is f***ing heartbreaking. A huge amount of the society\u2019s most vulnerable will lose their means of living.<\/p>\n<p>Asked my family for updates: My parents have quarantined themselves at home, are planning to turn the front hall into a \u201cdisinfection zone\u201d and use only specific clothes and shoes to go outside. My father says playing piano helps to distract him from the issue, but that he finds himself thinking about \u201cthe paradox of all of us worldwide working together against that invisible enemy and at the same time being required to stay away from each other while doing so\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>My mother, an American expat, has contact with other Americans around the globe and is noticing a wide variety of responses: \u201cWhile a woman in Norway was talking about silver linings and used the term &#8222;flu&#8220; the rep from Florence totally flipped out. Totally stopped the meeting by repeatedly shouting &#8222;stay the f**k home &#8220; until his mic was turned off. After he calmed down, he explained that people were constantly breaking the rules, sneaking out &#8222;for a quick Aperitivo with their friends&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>21.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Today was the first official day under curfew. Guess we\u2019ll see just how hard isolation really is.<\/p>\n<p>The number of infected in Germany jumped by thousands again overnight. When will the trend reverse? It\u2019s overwhelming.<\/p>\n<p>What helps is knowing what measures are being taken, knowing that at least somebody is making plans, building some kind of a dam against the rising numbers.<\/p>\n<p>Grocery stores have started shielding their cashiers behind protective sheets of plastic. Stores and the tram have barriers and signs instructing people to keep their distance. On the other hand, someone I follow on social media just said they left their home quarantine and went to the store because they wanted some Nutella. If there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned about crisis, it\u2019s that it usually comes hand in hand with absurdity.<\/p>\n<p>I think it\u2019s important to think about the effects of this crisis on people\u2019s <em>mental<\/em> health as well as physical. I e-mailed my therapist today, she suggested I just call her for my appointment next week instead of coming in person. Hope other people have similar resources available, but I know it\u2019s not enough.<\/p>\n<p>One more thing, I learned about an online tool called <a href=\"https:\/\/foldingathome.org\/about\/\">Folding at home<\/a>: \u201cFolding@home (FAH or F@h) is a distributed computing project for simulating protein dynamics, including the process of protein folding and the movements of proteins implicated in a variety of diseases. It brings together citizen scientists who volunteer to run simulations of protein dynamics on their personal computers. Insights from this data are helping scientists to better understand biology, and providing new opportunities for developing therapeutics\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/foldingathome.org\/about\/\">About Page of their Website<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>The idea is that private citizens provide additional computing power to support scientists researching things like the corona vaccine. Signed myself up. That and this diary project help me to feel less helpless. Of all problems I\u2019ve always found it hardest to deal with things out of my control.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not purely selfish motivation, though. We know that history is the past interpreted through the lens of the present. It\u2019s extremely important to me to document what really went down in the weeks and months of the corona pandemic. So in the end no-one can lay blame at the feet of those who weren\u2019t responsible. So we don\u2019t forget who really saved our asses here: grocery store workers, doctors, nurses, people exposing themselves to risk every day to keep our society functioning. So we don\u2019t forget what we\u2019ve learned: which people and industries are essential to our survival. Why universal healthcare is not only morally right but essential for a country to function.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>23.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A three way phone call with my sister and mother made me feel more human. From what I hear from them plenty of people still aren\u2019t taking the situation seriously, but my parents are being hyper-cautious. There\u2019s such a wide range of reactions. Apparently some people believe we shouldn\u2019t quarantine because the virus can be healed by positive energy, or because we if we let it run its course we will simply develop herd immunity.<\/p>\n<p>Over the past few days, I\u2019ve been driving myself crazy by overanalyzing everything my body does. Sleepiness? Could be a sign of Corona. Coughing once in an evening? Must be getting the virus. Feeling kind of warm? Corona.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously though, I think I\u2019m going to get the virus eventually. I probably already have it in my system, so right now my main worry is not passing it on to anyone else. I let someone in my dorm borrow tools from me today but placed the tools in front of my door, rather than answering in person. I couldn\u2019t bear the idea of being responsible for spreading the disease. I\u2019m young and healthy, I\u2019ll survive, if I take care of myself, but who knows about the constitution of those around me?<\/p>\n<p>I read an article that described in excruciating detail just how the virus affects and eventually kills you. All about how it destroys cells in your lungs, filling them up with debris that makes it hard to breathe, how it can permanently damage your organs. I\u2019m definitely taking it seriously now. On the other hand I\u2019ve heard of cases among young people that were so mild the affected barely knew they were affected. So many question marks around this disease.<\/p>\n<p>I spent the morning battling software, trying to find the perfect app to record phone conversations so I can do interviews and continue my research for my bachelor\u2019s thesis. Had to delete several apps on my phone to make room, including a dating app \u2013 won\u2019t be using that anytime soon, will I? Actually it would be quite interesting to see how people are presenting themselves and chatting on a dating app these days, love in the times of Corona.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously I am coping well today using humor. The one thing that really hurt me was that when talking to my mother, it became clear that she\u2019s depressed and terrified by the situation, but feels like she has to put on a brave face and not let anyone know she\u2019s suffering. My sister and I tried to convince her that we\u2019re all scared, that it\u2019s okay for her to cry, or show fear and anger. I screamed into a pillow just the other day, when the fear and uncertainty got too much for me. I think she still believes crying would be a sign of weakness, that she would make her husband worry, that she has to act bright and cheerful for him. I hope she finds an outlet for her emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Before quarantine began, I gave away a bottle of alcohol, because I was afraid, I\u2019d start drinking as a coping mechanism. Instead I\u2019m stress-eating. But there are worse ways to cope, right? I\u2019m trying to just take things one day at a time, so as not to get overwhelmed. I think you can deal with the present if you take it in tiny, bite-sized pieces, it\u2019s just the future that\u2019s really scary.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>24.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And suddenly, I spring back into action. One of the weirdest things about this crisis is the feeling of acceleration and stagnation, or \u201churry up and wait\u201d. You spend days at a time spinning your wheels, because you and everyone around you is uncertain of how to proceed, and then suddenly you (have to) move to adjust to the newest change. For example, when they announced a curfew I spent a day and a half rushing around trying to get errands done and get all my preparations for quarantine settled, and then the days since then have been sort of slow and casual. The only thing driving me to do things was internal motivation.<\/p>\n<p>This morning a discussion has started about how to proceed with the summer semester at the University of Freiburg. As a member of a student representative group I\u2019ve been communicating with others about what we students want \u2013 it seems our nightmare scenario would be a complete cancellation of the semester. And that option is on the table. We\u2019re currently drafting a letter with our suggestions. As always, actively DOING something about the situation feels empowering, but being confronted with the uncertainty (even the university doesn\u2019t know what to do! Nobody knows, not even the \u201cauthority figures\u201d) is causing me a lot of anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>25.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Grocery stores seem to be well-stocked again, I was impressed by how quickly they\u2019ve adapted with new precautions (signs to keep distance between customers or reminding people not to hoard). Apart from the grocery store being emptier than usual, things look basically the same as always.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>26.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A friend shared some articles with me that offer valuable perspectives on the Corona situation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/03\/that-discomfort-youre-feeling-is-grief\">Scott Berinato: That Discomfort You\u2019re Feeling Is Grief<\/a> (March 23<sup>rd<\/sup>, 2020).<\/p>\n<p>The author illustrated how going through the Corona crisis can feel like going through the stages of grief. What can be especially hard, and what I believe I am also feeling is \u201canticipatory grief\u201d, knowing that hardship lies ahead but not knowing exactly when or how.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.republik.ch\/2020\/03\/19\/das-wichtigste-ist-nicht-nur-das-virus-ist-ansteckend-sondern-auch-dein-verhalten?utm_source=newsletter&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=republik%2Fnewsletter-editorial-covid-19-uhr-vom-mittwoch\">Interview with Rutger Bregman by Daniel Graf: Das Wichtigste ist: Nicht nur das Virus ist ansteckend, sondern auch dein Verhalten<\/a> (March 19<sup>th<\/sup> 2020).<\/p>\n<p>The historian Bregman points out how, despite a prevailing image of humans as inherently selfish, in times of crisis people tend to come together and help each other survive.<\/p>\n<p>I also spoke to my therapist on the phone, she made the very valuable suggestion of trying to maintain a routine. Even though we\u2019re sort of living in our own world, it\u2019s good to run on the same clock as those around us.<\/p>\n<p>And finally, I received a mail from my university stating that the start of the summer semester will be postponed, but that classes should all still take place online. I\u2019ll sleep better in the knowledge that I don\u2019t have to worry about the semester being canceled completely.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>27.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My social media feed is full of commentary (serious and in meme-form) about the US republican politicians claiming it\u2019s necessary to sacrifice lives for the sake of businesses and the economy. It\u2019s making me wonder if perhaps a candidate like Bernie Sanders does have a chance of winning the upcoming election. If ever there was a time to vote for free health care this is it. But I\u2019m decidedly not getting my hopes up, since we\u2019ve ample evidence of voters (especially American voters) voting against their own best interests.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I could easily be fully occupied with academic work during quarantine, but I\u2019ve started browsing through work opportunities related to the crisis. Maybe I\u2019m just restless, but it somehow doesn\u2019t feel right to \u201csit this one out\u201d. There\u2019s a platform for example, connecting people in search of jobs with those seeking agricultural workers. Now that the borders are closed there\u2019s a shortage of those workers too. (Bit ironic, considering that right-wing parties like the AfD have been bleating about closing the borders for years now.) I\u2019ll be honest \u2013 I am just not cut out for agricultural labor. But I might have other skills to offer, for example tutoring kids stuck at home? Warrants more research.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like the initial shock of this new situation is passing and now it\u2019s all about \u201cwhat can we do during\/about Corona\u201d. People are sharing lots of petitions too, e.g. for bonuses or better working conditions for hospital employees. I think it\u2019s incredibly telling that right now most people seem to be scrambling for something to do, some way to help. I\u2019m reluctant to make sweeping statements about the \u201cnature of humankind\u201d, but it does seem that for the majority, sitting on the couch is counterintuitive.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>29.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One of the more common sentiments heard these days (as in many times of crisis), is newfound appreciation for things that were previously mundane or trivial. Personally, I can\u2019t wait to eat in the university cafeteria, to drink overpriced tea in a caf\u00e9 with an acquaintance, to hug a friend, to travel by bus or train to another city. Banal and unoriginal maybe, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>In the realm of humorous responses, a friend shared a Corona Bingo chart with me. A few hours later, she texted me about a german politician who committed suicide, citing he couldn\u2019t see a future for our economy and society.<\/p>\n<p>Harsh, horrible news and absurd gags chase each other around in a circle.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: auto 0px; padding: 0px 50px; font-size: 24px; float: left; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 40px; float: left; font-weight: normal;\">&#8222;<\/strong>If I stay home and wash my hands then the virus can\u2019t get me. Except of course that the economic and political implications of this pandemic will affect us all.<strong style=\"font-size: 40px; font-weight: normal;\">\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>30.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Had a long conversation with a friend about all sorts of things, which of course looped around to Corona most of the time. We\u2019re both almost done with our bachelor\u2019s degrees and worried that we won\u2019t be able to graduate as planned. After we speculated and commiserated for a while she finally expressed frustration at the attitude of minimizing the disturbance caused by corona, of sticking to established rules and plans. \u201cEveryone\u2019s life has been disturbed. Everyone is going to have a gap in their curriculum vitae \u2013 so what?! The point of life isn\u2019t to adhere to some strict plan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Today while walking through a public park, one of the more popular places where people are still meeting and exercising or going for walks, I spotted colorful stones painted with messages like \u201cStay home\u201d and \u201cWir halten zusammen\u201d. The message really has become omnipresent \u2013 STAY HOME. Heard it in a PSA in between listening to songs on Spotify too. It\u2019s starting to feel like something to cling to, like the kind of magical thinking you had as a child: If I stay in the light or under my blanket the monsters can\u2019t get me. Of course the whole stay at home thing is based on science and facts. And it\u2019s important, so important! But it also feels like a kind of mantra an individual can use to reduce the complexity of the situation. If I stay home and wash my hands then the virus can\u2019t get me. Except of course that the economic and political implications of this pandemic will affect us all, even those of us who don\u2019t get sick. Focusing on one\u2019s own actions and choices can feel more empowering than worrying about things outside one\u2019s reach.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>31.03.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Against my original intentions to stock up on supplies and then not leave the house for weeks at a time I find myself confronted with the need to go out more frequently. To mail some paperwork to a doctor, to renew the credit on my cell phone plan.<\/p>\n<p>In a lot of areas people are being forced to think on their feet and are proving their flexibility and adaptability. In the span of about two weeks restaurants have turned into drive-in and delivery services, supermarkets have put up Plexiglas walls to protect their cashiers; teachers have started receiving and grading homework via e-mail. Not to paint everything in a rosy glow \u2013 I just guess our society is more adaptable and quicker than I thought.<\/p>\n<p>Conducted a phone-interview for my bachelor\u2019s thesis. I\u2019m glad my research is progressing and isn\u2019t dependent on face-to-face contact, though it does make some things harder.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>01.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A little while back I joined a Facebook group where people can offer and exchange help with grocery shopping and so on, today the administrator posted a warning about a member who had tried to take advantage of someone stuck at home and get paid for delivering groceries, although they\u2019d originally agreed to provide help free of charge. The comment section was filled with people expressing dismay at how people could be so immoral and others replying that throughout history some people have always tried to profit off of others misfortune in a crisis. Generally, the prevailing sentiment was quite misanthropic.<\/p>\n<p>Some acquaintances sent me a picture of 400\u20ac worth of groceries in the trunk of their car, supplies for at least three weeks. Prominently placed were wine bottles and package of Baldrian (valerian) to soothe the nerves.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>03.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been trying to limit the time I spend consuming corona news, feel like I\u2019d drive myself crazy hearing about all the terrible things that are out of my control. But there are a lot of rumors flying around. People talk about people deliberately spitting at others as a prank, about delivery trucks for grocery stores being robbed. On one Facebook thread I read the theory that the government and media in Germany deliberately downplayed the usefulness of facemasks because they knew there wasn\u2019t enough supply. At the moment I lack the energy to trace every bit of corona-related information and find out if it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile I peer out my bedroom window and see families taking walks, students carrying groceries, people walking their dogs. It\u2019s a sunny day, at one point I counted fourteen people out at once. Mostly two at a time, the only larger groups were adults with children.<\/p>\n<p>My only contribution today was to write a pandemic related short story. Entirely fictional. It was sort of cathartic. But I guess that didn\u2019t leave me with much energy to focus on the diary.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>05.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I believe it\u2019s time to say that quarantine is getting to me. I\u2019ve tried to ward off cabin fever or more accurately cabin depression as best I could. Stay in contact with people over the phone, work in a different spot from usual, exercise, try to do something fun or relaxing, even treated myself to a little junk food. But for the past few days I\u2019ve been getting more and more listless, bored and frustrated. I went out in the sunshine today, just a short walk around my building. That at least made me feel better for a little while. I don\u2019t want to sound overdramatic, a little boredom isn\u2019t so bad after all. But my imagination tends to picture worst case scenarios and I can\u2019t help wondering <em>how much longer will I be stuck here? <\/em>I like to joke that, like a zoo animal, I need enrichment to stay happy. They might toss an elephant a pumpkin filled with treats, make it work for its food a little to keep it from getting bored. My equivalent of a pumpkin would probably be going to an interesting lecture, to see a movie, going shopping, grabbing coffee with a friend. Even just walking through a part of town I\u2019ve never been in before can work wonders sometimes, when my brain is screaming for new input. I\u2019ll get over it, find myself a pumpkin in my own four walls somehow. This feeling \u2013 that nothing is interesting, nothing matters, there is nothing to look forward to and even the things in my future just seem burdensome rather than exciting \u2013 won\u2019t last forever. I just wish it would pass already! Thank God next week I can go to the grocery store at least.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>06.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A trip to the grocery store revealed that the shelves are indeed reassuringly full, but the checkout was abnormally long due to customers buying in bulk and a decreased number of cashiers. While standing in line for about 30 minutes I read an anthropological article on rituals in the context of corona, and their reassuring properties. I haven\u2019t developed any rituals myself, outside of striving to maintain regular working, sleeping and relaxing rhythms. Towards the beginning of the crisis I made a habit of checking the number of infected every day but eventually stopped, because it was basically the same disturbing news every day. I took zink and vitamin c tablets each day until I ran out too. Not sure those count as rituals though, since I wasn\u2019t imbuing them with any higher meaning.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sapiens.org\/culture\/coronavirus-rituals\/\">Dimitris Xygalatas: Explaining the emergence of Coronavirus rituals <\/a>(01.04.2020).<\/p>\n<p>Despite feeling guilty about it I agreed to meet a friend for a walk in a public park tomorrow. It should be possible to keep some distance and avoid contact with more than one person at a time, since I won\u2019t be taking public transportation. I guess I weighed the risk of infection against the mental health benefits of vitamin D, some company and a much needed change of scenery, and caved.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>07.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Getting real sick of uncertainty.<\/p>\n<p>Tried to find out if application deadlines for master\u2019s programs at my universities of choice have been changed, but their websites have not been updated since the corona crisis.<\/p>\n<p>I have an appointment with a psychiatrist tomorrow to discuss getting a prescription for antidepressants, but I\u2019m not completely sure they\u2019re even seeing patients, wasn\u2019t able to reach anyone over the phone. I\u2019ll just have to hope for the best and go. This crisis has been hell on my mental health which was not the greatest to begin with.<\/p>\n<p>And now I\u2019m trying to figure out how to install what feels like the tenth different application to converse with people. Why does everyone need a different platform, can\u2019t people just agree on zoom or webex or whatever?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, sorry, it\u2019s not been a good day. Let posterity know that. In a crisis sometimes you react with grace and courage and sometimes you just want to cry.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: auto 0px; padding: 0px 50px; font-size: 24px; float: left; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 40px; float: left; font-weight: normal;\">&#8222;<\/strong>I\u2019m worried this is just one more time in history when the working poor are the first to die.<strong style=\"font-size: 40px; font-weight: normal;\">\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>09.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People are adjusting. Our university library is now offering a delivery service to students who badly need literature for their academic writing, and the department of ethnology announced that no scheduled classes will be canceled in the upcoming semester, just moved online. Every time I set foot in a grocery store I see more plastic barriers, more markers to keep your distance, even people standing at the entrance, monitoring how many customers can enter the store.<\/p>\n<p>Boris Johnson seems to be recovering and Bernie Sanders is making way for Joe Biden to become the democratic nominee. Of course I\u2019d hoped the pandemic would lead to meaningful political change, especially in the US, where the federal government\u2019s incompetence and corruption are becoming more evident with each passing day. I hope that change will still come, when things have calmed down a bit, when people are not so imminently preoccupied with survival.<\/p>\n<p>The tone in discourse surrounding workers is shifting too. More and more I\u2019m seeing scathing or outright angry responses to the term \u201chero\u201d, which was being used so liberally to refer to people who are on the \u201cfront lines\u201d, grocery stores and hospitals mainly. More and more \u201cheroes\u201d or their family members are speaking up about how many of them are forced to work under these dangerous conditions to survive financially, and how little is being done to compensate them. I\u2019m worried this is not the time when we finally step up as a society and show appreciation for those in low-paying low-prestige jobs who keep our society running by actually making their working conditions and remuneration better. I\u2019m worried this is just one more time in history when the working poor are the first to die. To paraphrase a furious series of tweets by the mother of a grocery store cashier: Don\u2019t say heroes when you mean sacrifices.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>11.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Had a four way video-call with my family last night, sort of interesting to compare observations. We wondered how many of the current changes would be permanent. Will people work from home more in the future, and if they do, will they be easier to exploit? Not so easy to leave work at work when you work from home. Right now everyone signs off on communications with: Stay healthy or: Hope you are healthy. Normally it would be a weird thing to say to a stranger, but it\u2019s become a habit. Wonder if that will stick?<\/p>\n<p>In parts of Asia wearing a face mask was not an unusual sight prior to Corona. I certainly wouldn\u2019t mind that becoming a more common sight here too. I bowed to my parents\u2019 concern that I\u2019m not being careful enough and made myself a mask out of a bandana.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry if I lack coherence today, got a pretty bad headache. Apparently that\u2019s a very common side effect of starting a new medication.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>12.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know who worries me more, people who are taking the corona pandemic seriously enough to start apocalypse prepping, including stockpiling guns to ward off anyone who might be coming for their toilet paper supplies, or the ones who leave their shelter in place every other day cause they got a sudden craving for a hamburger. Both seem to have adopted a \u201clooking out for # 1\u201d mentality.<\/p>\n<p>But of course it\u2019s easy to be cynical. A cousin of mine in the US is getting married in about two weeks and has had to uninvite most of her guests, but even with only closest friends and family there will be about 20 people there. Makes me grimace to think of the infection potential, but of course I can empathize. Wonder when it will be possible to travel internationally again?<\/p>\n<p>One very minor change: I\u2019ve had to purchase a new cell phone contract because in the last few weeks I\u2019ve used up more phone minutes than in the past year.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>13.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not from an especially religious family, but I think we all felt a degree of disappointment at not being able to celebrate easter together this year. I felt the need to mark the occasion somehow, if only by treating myself to a slightly nicer meal. Observing holidays, albeit in the most casual way seems to make the passage of time more palpable. Paradoxically the time in quarantine, a little over three weeks at this point, sometimes seems to have passed very quickly and sometimes very slowly. More and more the reality is sinking in that this pandemic is going to change our lives forever.<\/p>\n<p>I think my journal entries have become shorter because I\u2019m rapidly adjusting to the new normal. Yeah I miss hugging friends and going to class, yeah I\u2019m horrified by the rising death toll, but to complain about it seems redundant. And I can\u2019t plan for the future, so I try not to think about it, focus on the now. We are humans, we adapt. Not necessarily a good thing, but something that\u2019s become very clear lately.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>14.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I keep wondering if I\u2019m asymptomatic. Corona seems so omnipresent, it feels like I <em>must<\/em> have picked it up somewhere, even though only a relatively small percentage of the population has been infected so far.<\/p>\n<p>Saw an absolutely heartbreaking video of a nurse from the US speaking about her experiences, how everyone in the health care field is completely overworked, how they\u2019re gutted by losing more and more patients but try to keep up a brave front. The woman was sobbing, saying \u201cWe\u2019re human too\u201d about health care workers, that they suffer just like \u201cordinary\u201d people. With all the talk of heroes going around social media maybe it\u2019s necessary to see a reminder of that. Also odd to see a person say they have no one they can share their fear and anguish with in a video that\u2019s broadcasted to millions worldwide over facebook. But I guess we all have specific people in our lives who we want to protect, who we don\u2019t want to burden with our pain.<\/p>\n<p>If I hadn\u2019t already been feeling rage and disgust towards that useless, self-obsessed buffoon calling himself president of the United States I certainly would have after watching that video.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>15.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Was on a phone conference this morning with several others as representatives of the student body in a discussion about holding exams via video-conference in the coming months. The university wants to issue a new charter as soon as possible, but is still waiting for information from the state government. There was uncertainty on behalf of all involved \u2013 students, teaching staff and administrators, but also a general sense of tolerance and goodwill, a sense that people genuinely want to help each other out. And here as well, the new formula for saying goodbye: Bleiben Sie gesund!<\/p>\n<p>I left my apartment for the first time in six days, but only to get my mail. Got a letter confirming the deadline for my bachelor\u2019s thesis \u2013 exactly three months from now. So that clock is ticking. Really Corona doesn\u2019t make that much of a difference, I would have had as much time under normal circumstances, and I would also have had to write the damn thing on my own, but I still feel a bit like I\u2019ve been locked in a cage alone with a beast. Oh well, I\u2019ll manage.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>17.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An academic conference I was planning to go to in May was postponed by a year \u2013 which is less surprising in and of itself than the fact that it was only announced yesterday. While it\u2019s been decided that social distancing measures will be continued in Germany until next month I\u2019m hearing from my sister in Austria about some very incremental shifts back to normal life. Certain stores are permitted to open again, though masks are a requirement. The impression she gives me of our neighboring country to the south is that they have the situation pretty well organized.<\/p>\n<p>Another kind of weird corona-times phenomenon: watching television comedians without audience laughter in the background. I thought the host of ZDFs <em>Heute Show<\/em> managed to minimize awkward silences between gags pretty well, but between that and the bits of cautionary instruction woven into the comedic material even televised satire has a grim flavor these days.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s now been 8 days since I last went outdoors.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>18.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My special treat for the day \u2013 I went outside, sat on the lawn outside my building and read a book alone. The air outside smelled dusty and sweet and sunlight on my skin was the best thing I\u2019ve felt in a long time. Honestly, I don\u2019t want to sound overdramatic, but I couldn\u2019t stop thinking about the physical sensations, prickly grass, soft breeze, almost uncomfortable heat from the sun on the back of my neck. At least a dozen people passed me by, but always no more than two people at a time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>19.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My best friend came back to town after over a month with her parents. Corona-related highlights of our conversation:<br \/>\nHer: I washed my hands can I give you a hug?<br \/>\nMe: That\u2019s the first time I\u2019ve hugged someone in over a month, that was like crack!<\/p>\n<p>She has to keep a job in which she is treated poorly because we\u2019re on the verge of a financial crisis and it\u2019s one of the few jobs you can do from home.<\/p>\n<p>For the first time in my life I find myself agreeing with a conservative politician (Markus S\u00f6der) over the Linke on how to deal with Corona, since he is more cautious.<\/p>\n<p>For about the 100<sup>th<\/sup> time we considered ourselves lucky to be living in a country with a good healthcare infrastructure.<\/p>\n<p>And of course we shared corona memes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>21.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So today I found out it will soon be mandatory to wear a facemask in stores and public transportation. As I had to go outside anyway I tested a self-made contraption with a handkerchief. Stayed in place but made it so difficult to breathe I had to take it off after about 20 minutes. That definitely requires more work\u2026<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s now been a solid month since lockdown began for me. Maybe I\u2019m just feeling calm because I\u2019ve had a pretty good day, but I\u2019m surprised at how quickly the crisis has become routine. And somehow I still don\u2019t know anyone in my circle of acquaintances who\u2019s gotten sick! It seems too good to be true \u2013 but who knows how many have been asymptomatic?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>23.04.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A friend of mine has a sewing machine and has offered to make me a face mask (she\u2019s getting pretty good at it).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve decided to step up my exercise regime as I\u2019m really getting tired of mostly sitting at my desk all day. I wasn\u2019t a terribly athletic person before the lockdown, but back then at least I got in more movement just by going about my daily life.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m really sort of shocked that I\u2019m still healthy. Honestly had expected to get sick before now.<\/p>\n<p>My sense of time has gone completely out the window though.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: auto 0px; padding: 0px 50px; font-size: 24px; float: left; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 40px; float: left; font-weight: normal;\">&#8222;<\/strong>I ended my diary in April, because I felt that I was repeating myself, that there really was nothing new to say about Corona that hadn\u2019t already been said by someone else.<strong style=\"font-size: 40px; font-weight: normal;\">\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>27.06.2020<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I ended my diary in April, because I felt that I was repeating myself, that there really was nothing new to say about Corona that hadn\u2019t already been said by someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Reading this back in the process of anonymizing the entries, I surprise myself.<\/p>\n<p>My fear seems overblown and I am ashamed of how dramatic I was. But I know that those were my genuine feelings at the time, and I think I wasn\u2019t alone. There were days at the beginning when we really were afraid we would run out of food, that none of us would be spared by the illness, that we would all lose loved ones. Before reading this I had almost forgotten that. Many things are almost back to normal, caf\u00e9s and movie theaters have opened, although with restrictions of course. I have a whole collection of face masks to cycle through.<\/p>\n<p>At first glance it seems like a story with a happy ending, especially because on a personal level I can tell that my mental health is much improved compared to march. It\u2019s almost embarrassing to me how depressed and anxious I was a few months ago, and it certainly helps to contextualize this diary.<\/p>\n<p>But I feel a different kind of shame when I realize that my behavior has reverted in many ways. I am used to wearing a mask and washing my hands and all that, not shaking hands or hugging people. But I find myself complaining about wanting in-person-classes again, and taking public transit for convenience, despite the heightened infection risk.<\/p>\n<p>If I had to draw some sort of conclusion I would say that the corona crisis has \u201ctaught me\u201d that individuals and societies can change and adapt more quickly than I expected, but that many changes happen on a subconscious level you aren\u2019t aware of until you reflect on it with some distance.<\/p>\n<p>It unsettles me that I feel like a different person from the author of that first entry. I don\u2019t like it, because I\u2019m not sure the experience changed me the way I wanted it to. I think a romantic part of my brain wanted hardship to reveal some core of hidden strength or virtue. I think I wanted an opportunity to be heroic. Instead, my life has continued to be mundane. Instead I feel like a rat that survived the sinking of the Titanic.<\/p>\n<p>Human lives were sacrificed for the economy, for political agendas, for ignorance, for greed. And while many of us were shocked, we were too busy with our day to day lives to stop it from happening. Maybe we adapt too well, find it too easy to accept a loss and move on. Maybe it\u2019s far too early for me to draw any kind of conclusion from a crisis that isn\u2019t over.<\/p>\n<p>And maybe \u2013 probably \u2013 I should leave the philosophizing to future historians.<\/p>\n<p>So to them: I wish you good luck deciphering what went down in the first half of 2020. 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